Hello Aleš,

I’m sending you my feedback following the program on resolving the relationship with parents.

Sincere congratulations for all the attention, time, and energy you invest in the AEQ method.

For me, it is a unique and most authentic path of learning that leads us to answers for all of life’s big WHYs.

To begin, I want to praise the parent relationship program—it is very rich and intense in content. All respect to Aleš, who, in terms of knowledge, feels like a bottomless well.

At the moment, I’m still in the process of calming and grounding—post-program. I’m gradually integrating the acquired knowledge into life.

For me, the program was demanding both in terms of schedule and due to the heat. Since the end of the program, I’ve had blocked sinuses and a dry throat (mainly from the air conditioning and, of course, tightly connected with the process of relaxation), which then developed into a slight ear infection and a sore throat. My body feels like it’s on fire (fever), and based on my understanding of the body releasing heat through the melting of certain patterns and untruths—related to both personal history and relationships—my current state makes sense.

A fundamental difference I notice is in how I deal with understanding the causes of things—more calmly.

The knowledge you share within this program is truly rich, intense, difficult, deep, and real. During the program, I often thought how lucky I am to have known the AEQ method long enough, because I don’t know how I would have managed if this had been my first program. I probably would have quit due to its demands. But this way, I was really able to become even more aware of my progress over time.

The interweaving of knowledge through the historical facts of our ancestors—and how those facts impacted them and, consequently, us, our relationships, emotions, and patterns—is very clearly explained through Aleš’s presentations. The importance of understanding natural laws and how male structure determines male function—behavior, and female structure determines female function—behavior, gave me better insight into roles, especially in partnerships and parenting, where these two roles complement each other.

You can truly feel which roles are female and which are male. Where the woman is weaker, the man supports her, and where the man is weaker, he needs the woman’s support and guidance.

This understanding is deepened through Aleš’s very detailed explanation of the differences in how the left (male) and right (female) brain hemispheres operate.

Very intense knowledge, further enriched by the natural laws of body functioning, through which Aleš offers insight into the causes of felt consequences, which manifest through SMA, SMO, and SMI.

It’s challenging to feel yourself and your body again when you begin to comprehend the reasons why we broke that connection in the first place. When the truth is too painful, the survival instinct silences it. And the only way to do that is to break the connection with the body—where the pain clearly originates—because the body is the contact with reality.

This is where the importance of the exercises comes in, both for relaxing the body and for feeling the tension we usually ignore, overlook, or silence in the rhythm of everyday life, just as tradition instructs.

Your relationship with the ground reflects your relationship with your roots—your parents. If you altered reality in that relationship, you had to interrupt—change—distort memories, and with that, your relationship to the ground you stand on.
The body remembers everything, and everything you suppress is stored within it.

The red thread of the program is truth—and truth is not always pleasant.

Oh, that painful truth, which we try to rewrite in our stories as untruth so it hurts less. But it has consequences: we have to invest much more energy into pretending. Truth exists as it is, with no energy input. Untruth, under the pretense of “it’ll be easier this way,” consumes precious energy (needed to uphold the falsehood) that we could have used for life—and we don’t even realize we lack it because we’re using it in the wrong direction (manipulating the truth).

Heavy realizations and confrontations are a crucial part of the process on the path to gradual acceptance, understanding, recognition, and the careful introduction of changes.

To gradually influence the subconscious—which fiercely resists change—is a natural law as well.

We began at the beginning—where everything begins. In the mother’s womb, where the state of the autonomic nervous system is already forming as an unborn child. And this is just the beginning. Aleš very thoroughly and extensively explains the progression of processes that lead to the consequences we live—within ourselves, on ourselves, and in our lives.

Every “why” has its “because”—cause and effect. The state of the ANS defines throughout our lives how we perceive, behave, feel, interpret, react, form relationships, and live.

It is important to understand how the subconscious and emotional maturity did not follow the pace of technological advancement. Emotional maturity and the subconscious must be adjusted to time and progress. Emotions also need time—just like the subconscious and the body.

It is also essential to understand the concept of flow in the body, which is the result of calmness and softness. In a state of chronic tension, resistance increases and flow decreases. This causes us not to feel the messages from the body, which then makes it impossible to recognize mistakes—and so, change cannot occur. We don’t sense the irregularities, and therefore we don’t correct mistakes—we repeat them, believing that fate is to blame.

Deep, real, intense, and demanding.

So I’ll just add my opinion: this program needs a process and time. I would absolutely run it with the same content, just with extended duration, because internalizing so much new and important knowledge takes time.

Thank you for everything!
Jana